tedtan
Well-Known Member
My mother has had some health issues lately and it seems that she is almost at the point where she needs a nursing home or in home nurse to help keep her sorted out, but she does not want either. Twice lately I have gone to her house and found her unconscious, lying on the floor and had to call for an ambulance to get her (back) to the hospital. What seems to be a big part of the issue is that she needs to take meds and eat at specific times throughout the day and if she misses a dose or meal, it throws her off and she spirals downward, missing the next dose/meal and so on.
My sister just took a vacation with her family and took our mother with her. She was able to help keep my mom on schedule, taking her meds and eating properly and she seems to be doing great now that they’ve been back for a bit. But I‘m concerned that she will miss a dose of meds/meal and we’ll have to repeat the unconscious/ambulance/hospital routine.
So my question: if staying on schedule continues helping her, how can we keep her on schedule when we can’t be there with her 24/7 and she doesn’t want in home healthcare providers and refuses a nursing home? Calling her to remind her, keeping her motivated, etc. seem to be helping for now, but am I missing something more that we can do?
My sister just took a vacation with her family and took our mother with her. She was able to help keep my mom on schedule, taking her meds and eating properly and she seems to be doing great now that they’ve been back for a bit. But I‘m concerned that she will miss a dose of meds/meal and we’ll have to repeat the unconscious/ambulance/hospital routine.
So my question: if staying on schedule continues helping her, how can we keep her on schedule when we can’t be there with her 24/7 and she doesn’t want in home healthcare providers and refuses a nursing home? Calling her to remind her, keeping her motivated, etc. seem to be helping for now, but am I missing something more that we can do?