So, I'm not really sure what to do here.
It has come to my attention that a couple people I know, including co-workers, think I have an anger problem. Now, I think this stems from me getting mad at how much my job sucks, and me blurting out expletives throughout the day.
A friend of mine told me that they think it comes from my anger with my family. My parents' marriage is falling apart after over 30 years, and I'm kind of caught in the middle of it. My dad and mom are very passive-aggressive, so they never outright talk about stuff to each other, but they will talk about it to me, which inherently pisses me off. Every time my dad gets upset at my mom, he seems to take it out on me, and disguises it as something totally different to get mad at. He and I really got into it a couple nights ago, and I think we were ready to throw punches. I'm not a violent person, but I'm starting to reach my wits' end. I have told them many times that I refuse to get in the middle of it, but being their son, I would do just about anything for them, so I continue to be placed in the crossfire.
It was suggested that I get some self help books, which I personally think are fucking stupid. It's ironic that in an attempt to not be angry like my dad, I find myself getting angry in totally different ways. It was also discussed that this is the deep-rooted issue behind my constant emotional detachment from everything, as well as my inability to trust another human being, and my lack of faith in other people, not the least of which my lack of faith in humanity. I really don't feel like I have anger problem, I know I get angry, but we all do. I've never been violent, I like to sort out my anger with words.
I'm not really sure what to do here. I'm thinking I really need to just get away from everything for awhile. Maybe take a trip out of town to see some old friends or something. If I had the money, I would move out of the country. Permanently.
I dunno, anyone else been given this pep talk about anger? Anybody have some suggestions or ways to deal with it? (Besides playing guitar and getting a punching bag? I do both.
) I dunno, thanks in advance for listening.
It has come to my attention that a couple people I know, including co-workers, think I have an anger problem. Now, I think this stems from me getting mad at how much my job sucks, and me blurting out expletives throughout the day.
A friend of mine told me that they think it comes from my anger with my family. My parents' marriage is falling apart after over 30 years, and I'm kind of caught in the middle of it. My dad and mom are very passive-aggressive, so they never outright talk about stuff to each other, but they will talk about it to me, which inherently pisses me off. Every time my dad gets upset at my mom, he seems to take it out on me, and disguises it as something totally different to get mad at. He and I really got into it a couple nights ago, and I think we were ready to throw punches. I'm not a violent person, but I'm starting to reach my wits' end. I have told them many times that I refuse to get in the middle of it, but being their son, I would do just about anything for them, so I continue to be placed in the crossfire.
It was suggested that I get some self help books, which I personally think are fucking stupid. It's ironic that in an attempt to not be angry like my dad, I find myself getting angry in totally different ways. It was also discussed that this is the deep-rooted issue behind my constant emotional detachment from everything, as well as my inability to trust another human being, and my lack of faith in other people, not the least of which my lack of faith in humanity. I really don't feel like I have anger problem, I know I get angry, but we all do. I've never been violent, I like to sort out my anger with words.
I'm not really sure what to do here. I'm thinking I really need to just get away from everything for awhile. Maybe take a trip out of town to see some old friends or something. If I had the money, I would move out of the country. Permanently.
I dunno, anyone else been given this pep talk about anger? Anybody have some suggestions or ways to deal with it? (Besides playing guitar and getting a punching bag? I do both.
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