Chokey Chicken
mouth breather
You're right in saying it's music in general. Metal is sort of unique though in that it's not "strange" or as oftenly commented on if a woman wants to start a pop group or play an acoustic. Beauty is still a huge factor but people instantly start ragging on women if they're into heavier stuff. I've been told plenty that I'm just "trying" to be quirky and cool. You don't get that as much in tamer genres.