Frustrations with your music (Complain here)

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Interesting thread idea, thanks.

I guess I have two major things I've been wrestling with lately, and they're both, more or less, related to composition.

1.) Songwriting, in general. I feel like I've gotten out of one rut and into another. The stuff I've been writing lately, when it goes well, sounds more like "me" by far than my last album did, I think, which I'm stoked about - I did some soul searching (promted by seeing Gregory Alan Isakov live in a small venue, who was fucking awesome, but the opening band that I was less taken with at some point in the show made reference to "our lord and savior Tom Waits," who full disclosure I'm also a huge fan of, and it occuring to me that of COURSE someone playing acoustic based indie/folk/whatever music was going to be a huge Tom Waits fan, it tracks perfectly, that was the least surprising thing they COULD have said on stage and it was on me for being a little surprised... and, by extension, it wasn't all that interesting that they were Tom Waits fans, too, because your influences that are in your genre or genres close to you really are pretty predictable, and the things that make you interesting are the influences outside your genre that you wouldn't necessarily expect... like Steven Wilson being a Tom Waits fan and showing that influence here and there with his use of noise and "dirt" in mixes and arrangements, or Opeth being Steven Wilson fans and their use of melody in between the heavy parts... or my dad actually kind of liking Opeth because the vocals remind him of Tom Waits. The inflences you have that DON'T make sense... that's where the fertile ground is. Long tangent, but I feel like I'm finding my voice by thinking less about Joe Satriani or Andy Timmons or John Petruccu, and more about Tom Waits and Gregory Alan Isakov and old minor-key folk songs and the like) between this one and the last and feel like the "sound" is more me. But, at the same time, writers block is back in a big way, and when I do come up with a cool set of chord changes or watnot, I'm having a hard time coming up with melody lines that both sound "interesting" and not-predictable, but also sound musical.

2.) solo writing. I've mostly just improvised. My last album, all the solos were improvised, with a bunch of punching in when an otherwise good improvisation went a little off the rails here or thwre, or I loved the first part of a solo but thought the second should go in another direction, etc. Increasingly, I'm feeling like if I want to write a really GOOD album of instrumental music, with memorable, ear catching solos, that's not gonna cut it. But, 've never really "written" solos before, so it's sort of a long, laborious proicess for me where I just start improvising around on the solo break, doing take after take, listening back, and finding things that work and trying to do more of that. I have no idea if at the end of the process I'll have a solo that I'm going to want to transcribe out and learn note-for-note, or if it's going to be more a "ok, fast lick with this basic contour, resolving to this note, slower line acending like so to here, fast note that needs to respove to this pitch, another fast run starting and stopping with pauses on this note, this note, and this note" and just improvising a little but within a very rigid framework. It's a whole different process for me, though.But, like, no one does shred albums these days were they're playing long improvised solos, and there's probably a reason for that.

2.a.) As a complicating factor, my first album was VERY diatonic - for the most part, I'd start off in a scale or mode, and pretty much stay there. I'm increasingly feeling like diatonic music is kind of a trap, where it's very easy to play Am-F-C-G and stick to A minor and everything's going to sound good and flow really nicely and fit together and you don't have to think much, you can just play... but doing that is a GREAT way to write the same couple songs over and over again, so one of the things I'm truing to do this time is do a lot more non-diatonic writing, where a song doesn't stay in the same key or tonality throughout. The two best peiecs of music I've written so far, I think, one has a minor-key chorus in an otherwise major/mixolydian verse and, well, actually I forgot where the solo ends up, but I think it's basically the relative minor of what would be the major key part if you ignored the occasional mixolydian bits, and the second is pretty diatonic for the most part but has a solo section that's modulating between what's basically C#m and A major (the tonality for the rest of the song), which are two closely related scales (differing in the D/D#) but definitely requires some real paying attention at speed.

Fun stuff to talk about, though. :yesway: In general, I've got a lot of hope, and I think the problems I have now are a better set of problems than I was having the last time I worked on an album.
 

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It's a long story, I guess.
At one show a few years ago, one of the bands' guitarists just picked up my guitar, which has 19 frets per octave, without asking (hoping to use it for their set) and they were so out of it (weed, I'd guess) that they had no idea until I pointed it out to them.

Wait, WHAT?!?!!!! I thought there was an unwritten rule (maybe written somewhere) that you do NOT touch another man's guitar without asking. You might as well be touching their woman. Also, I think the rule says that if they say "No", then you have to be cool with that.
 

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I thought to myself the other day, "when he was 20 James Hetfield wrote Kill Em All and when I'm 20 I'm gonna have Jack shit written and recorded," so I decided I'm gonna record a shit ton of essential classical sax excerpts, probably some jazz solos, and try and get that dumb metalcore thing ready for my friend who plays drums and bass to write the rhythm section under it. I can't leave since corona and all I have to do outside of work is practice, and I do that at work so
You're 19? I'm 39. Trust me, you have a LOT of time ahead of you to do shit. I felt kind of the same when I turned 20,a nd again 25, as you do, and if that feeling drives you to go out and accomplish stuff, rather than just feel bad, that's not all that bad a thing, really. If it's just a source of guilt, though... Idunno, the comparison to a video game here is a little too easy, but it's like you're just wrapping up the tutorial levels, and wondering why you're not rocking an end-game build yet. You've got time, just learn what you can now and use this as a time to prepare for what cmes next.
 

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You're 19? I'm 39. Trust me, you have a LOT of time ahead of you to do shit. I felt kind of the same when I turned 20,a nd again 25, as you do, and if that feeling drives you to go out and accomplish stuff, rather than just feel bad, that's not all that bad a thing, really. If it's just a source of guilt, though... Idunno, the comparison to a video game here is a little too easy, but it's like you're just wrapping up the tutorial levels, and wondering why you're not rocking an end-game build yet. You've got time, just learn what you can now and use this as a time to prepare for what cmes next.

You're speaking my language, now! LOL! He's still running the campaign, but he has plenty of time for the end game content (raid, trials, etc) (Huge Destiny player here...).
 

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At the very least, I haven't been sweating age-related musical accomplishments that much. I've accepted as fact that I did not attempt to have a career as a musician and that work & other obligations have come first. Somehow I think it has helped, getting back into writing, not thinking about being too young or too old to do something.
 
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I write new music constantly. I've got multiple finished albums just waiting to be released and I still write new stuff all the time. I think I overwhelm the people in my band because every week or every few days I send them a song I've done
 

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I've played in 2 metal bands in my life.

My most recent band I wrote 100% of the lyrics for. We recorded 17 songs on 3 separate demos that I wrote 100% lyrics and about 80% of the guitar riffs.

Hell, I even named the band.

I use to be able to sit down anywhere and write an entire song in minutes. These days, I can't write anything. I have no inspiration anymore. I've been carrying a notebook around incase an idea springs up. But, nothing lately, for a few years actually. I'm not sure how to get back my creativeness when it comes to lyrics.

I can write guitar riffs and bass lines all day long though. At least I've still got that going for me.
 
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I've played in 2 metal bands in my life.

My most recent band I wrote 100% of the lyrics for. We recorded 17 songs on 3 separate demos that I wrote 100% lyrics and about 80% of the guitar riffs.

Hell, I even named the band.

I use to be able to sit down anywhere and write an entire song in minutes. These days, I can't write anything. I have no inspiration anymore. I've been carrying a notebook around incase an idea springs up. But, nothing lately, for a few years actually. I'm not sure how to get back my creativeness when it comes to lyrics.

I can write guitar riffs and bass lines all day long though. At least I've still got that going for me.
Maybe a change in scenery would help.

Fun fact: I wrote a lot of my lyrics in the back room of a porn store. I used to go to the theater area, sit on the couch in the dark and just people watch. For some reason a sleazy seedy place with people fucking in the dark all around me helped me write.
 

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Maybe a change in scenery would help.

Fun fact: I wrote a lot of my lyrics in the back room of a porn store. I used to go to the theater area, sit on the couch in the dark and just people watch. For some reason a sleazy seedy place with people fucking in the dark all around me helped me write.

I'm not sure if my wife would approve of me hanging out at the porn store. But, I'll run it by her. Kidding.....

I have a folder full of the lyrics from my old band. I was thinking about re-recording one of them with just me on all parts to see if I could reawakening something.

Or sit and watch hours and hours of horror films to spark something.

I'm well versed in Norse and Germanic mythology, but I don't want to be an Amon Amarth clone.
 

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I'm well versed in Norse and Germanic mythology, but I don't want to be an Amon Amarth clone.
Maybe try something just a hair left or right of that - write some stuff inspired by Wagner's Ring Cycle, absent some of the anti-semitism, or maybe explore some Celtic mythology, or do the time-tested Tolkien thing and sit down with the Silmarillian for inspiration? Or I could see the Bhagavad Gita being fertile ground, especially one of the more stilted literal translations - tough to get more metal than "I am become Death, the destoryer of worlds."
 

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Maybe try something just a hair left or right of that - write some stuff inspired by Wagner's Ring Cycle, absent some of the anti-semitism, or maybe explore some Celtic mythology, or do the time-tested Tolkien thing and sit down with the Silmarillian for inspiration? Or I could see the Bhagavad Gita being fertile ground, especially one of the more stilted literal translations - tough to get more metal than "I am become Death, the destoryer of worlds."

Me and a couple of close pals had a power metal band in college that was themed based off of Celtic Mythology. We thought people would think it was cool. Maybe one or two of our friends thought it was a nifty gimmick, but it mostly came off as cheesy, in hindsight. I dunno, it's, like, a less macho version of Norse mythology-based bands.

I'd totally go check out a band that was inspired by The Bhagavad Gita, though, especially if it incorporated some traditional Indian music. :yesway:
 

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Some advice, worth what you paid for it :)

I have noticed that the more I do something, the easier it is.
So, for example, I put the guitar down for 7-8 years and when I picked it back up again, everything I wrote sounded like trite garbage to me for the first 6 mos. Eventually I worked through that shit and got back to a place where I feel good about my own playing.

Same thing happens with lyrics. If I've been working on them a lot, I start having ideas for them, I hear phrases and think "that would be a good lyric" or "i should write a song about that". If I haven't been writing recently, trying to start up again is like pulling out my own teeth. Everything sounds dumb, i have no good ideas, i can only write shit i've written before. Currently in this mode :(

I find I just have to push through the getting going, and write a bunch of crap, or I never get to the good stuff.
 

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Some of these posts read eerily similar to my situation. Tons of recorded riffs that I can't string together, ended up deleting everything since I didn't want to lean too heavily on old ideas. Lack of time and health issues made practice difficult and frankly not enjoyable. No drive to do anything these days other than play along with songs I like. I'm sort of at a weird crossroads where I'm debating just selling everything but we all know how that goes (regret and rebuy). I've also spent a lot of my time in repair and modding in lieu of playing which has been fun but feels kinda useless. It's almost like spending all your time building a race car but having it never leave the garage.
 

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Honestly, programming drums is my major hangup. I can come up with riffs any time I want, and leads. I can figure out bass lines and play them very quickly as well. Lyrics? No problem. But the damn drums are so time-consuming because I'm not a drummer, and don't think like one. I have a huge amount of respect for drummers and wish I knew one that could play what I need them to play (220bpm blast beats, lol).

I have strongly considered getting a kit and learning it myself, because that might be faster than programming them and trying to make them sound real.
 

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Most of my hang ups are usually around stuff "I wish I learned how to do earlier":

Playing drums: The one instrument I don't have confidence in playing. I can write drum parts and notate them well enough (gotten more efficient over the years) but never been able to play them on a level I can accept. I did start semi learning this year, but it'll be a while before I'm willing to record myself. Had I learned earlier I'd probably ditch hiring drummers as opposed to waiting a while for them. :lol:

DIY recording/production: Another thing I wish I started way earlier but only began throwing myself head first this year. I still get apprehensive on room recording acoustic instruments, but I'll get there. Post production mixing and mastering, also another big thing I wish I was far more fluent by now.

And of course the usual time to do everything. I can write and record no problem and I've written a ton of new music this year alone. It's the recording and releasing them I just wish was a much more faster and efficient process.
 

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I have strongly considered getting a kit and learning it myself, because that might be faster than programming them and trying to make them sound real.

Do it! Playing drums is lots of fun, way more than guitar.
 

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A big frustration I've had is trying to record. I was trying to record everything on the grid as much as possible. I'd try to get as close to perfect as possible and then warp the audio to make sure transients line up.

Now I'm working on getting the best take I can, and then adjusting the midi for drums and bass etc to line up with the audio transients instead. My playing will never be good enough to be perfectly on the grid, but I figured that simply moving midi will have less deleterious effects on my audio as no actual audio needs to be warped. My music is tight when all the tracks line up in time - the push and pull of the rhythm being slightly off-grid is not noticeable when everything is tight.

I threw together a small recording to test it, and even though the timing of my playing could've been much better, making the midi line up with my audio sounds sick. It feels like the ceiling's been lifted on my ability.
 
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A big frustration I've had is trying to record. I was trying to record everything on the grid as much as possible. I'd try to get as close to perfect as possible and then warp the audio to make sure transients line up.

Now I'm working on getting the best take I can, and then adjusting the midi for drums and bass etc to line up with the audio transients instead. My playing will never be good enough to be perfectly on the grid, but I figured that simply moving midi will have less deleterious effects on my audio as no actual audio needs to be warped. My music is tight when all the tracks line up in time - the push and pull of the rhythm being slightly off-grid is not noticeable when everything is tight.

I threw together a small recording to test it, and even though the timing of my playing could've been much better, making the midi line up with my audio sounds sick. It feels like the ceiling's been lifted on my ability.

You do know that everything isn't supposed to be directly on the grid, right? That's not really natural.
 
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