Goatfork
Well-Known Member
I'm in a sticky situation. I'm coming to you guys because I know you'll say it like it is, and why the fuck not, right?
So, I'm in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend. We're both from Alaska, and we had a really confusing summer where we both tried to move to Minnesota together, but it got confusing and we had some trouble. Long story short, I'm in Seattle going to school and she's still in Minnesota. We've patched everything up, and she's moving in with me in the fall.
Here's where it gets tricky. I need to go back to Alaska for a summer job to make a good chunk of change to pay for the rest of college. She wants me to come to Minnesota to work, and I told her I'd crunch the numbers. On top of the emotional 'no me gusta' of that wretched place, the place that ruined everything for a bit, I did the math and I'd make almost no profit there, whereas in Alaska I'd make more than enough.
She's super stressed, knowing I'm probably going to have to go to Alaska. There are some demons there she wants me to avoid, and I will, and she knows that, but it's playing hard on her nerves. I know I'll have to go to Alaska, and that she's moving to Seattle for me in the fall, but it's a delicate situation and I'm really afraid that me being there for a few months could be extremely detrimental, and might be the end. I love her more than anything, but I'm terrified of her reaction, or rather a delayed reaction.
What the fuck am I supposed to do? Do I go to Alaska to ensure that I don't have to take out student loans, so her and I will be more successful and better off when she's here like a responsible adult, while in fear of destruction, or what? I know what has to be done, but I'm just afraid of the possible outcome. She loves me more than anything, and wouldn't do anything to lose me, but still. It's scary.
So, I'm in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend. We're both from Alaska, and we had a really confusing summer where we both tried to move to Minnesota together, but it got confusing and we had some trouble. Long story short, I'm in Seattle going to school and she's still in Minnesota. We've patched everything up, and she's moving in with me in the fall.
Here's where it gets tricky. I need to go back to Alaska for a summer job to make a good chunk of change to pay for the rest of college. She wants me to come to Minnesota to work, and I told her I'd crunch the numbers. On top of the emotional 'no me gusta' of that wretched place, the place that ruined everything for a bit, I did the math and I'd make almost no profit there, whereas in Alaska I'd make more than enough.
She's super stressed, knowing I'm probably going to have to go to Alaska. There are some demons there she wants me to avoid, and I will, and she knows that, but it's playing hard on her nerves. I know I'll have to go to Alaska, and that she's moving to Seattle for me in the fall, but it's a delicate situation and I'm really afraid that me being there for a few months could be extremely detrimental, and might be the end. I love her more than anything, but I'm terrified of her reaction, or rather a delayed reaction.
What the fuck am I supposed to do? Do I go to Alaska to ensure that I don't have to take out student loans, so her and I will be more successful and better off when she's here like a responsible adult, while in fear of destruction, or what? I know what has to be done, but I'm just afraid of the possible outcome. She loves me more than anything, and wouldn't do anything to lose me, but still. It's scary.