Señor Voorhees
Well-Known Member
If you feel like being an optimist, at least you didn't invest years into her before she shit on you. Better to have this crap happen early on than after you've built a life with her.
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Señor Voorhees;3955203 said:If you feel like being an optimist, at least you didn't invest years into her before she shit on you. Better to have this crap happen early on than after you've built a life with her.
Easy, DON'T! She cheated on you in less than a day of you guys becoming official. Spare yourself the bs and get over her, staying with her could lead you down a dark road. There are WAY better woman out there.I want to find out how to forgive her
We're still a thing. That might make me seem gutless or like a pushover, but it's not like I feel nothing for her. She's said she's sorry a million times and I've never believed her any of those times. I just said I want to forgive her but don't know how. I want to find out how to forgive her, and I want to wait - with her - until then.
We're still a thing. That might make me seem gutless or like a pushover, but it's not like I feel nothing for her. She's said she's sorry a million times and I've never believed her any of those times. I just said I want to forgive her but don't know how. I want to find out how to forgive her, and I want to wait - with her - until then.
Easy, DON'T! She cheated on you in less than a day of you guys becoming official. Spare yourself the bs and get over her, staying with her could lead you down a dark road. There are WAY better woman out there.
Dude, no, don't forgive her. If you do then she'll think that she can walk all over you and get away with cheating on you more. I honestly say that you're (somewhat) lucky in that she did it so fast. That should be a huge red flag to gtfo and cut her out of life. You shouldn't have to put up with it and it will only end up worse in the long run. Save yourself while you can.We're still a thing. That might make me seem gutless or like a pushover, but it's not like I feel nothing for her. She's said she's sorry a million times and I've never believed her any of those times. I just said I want to forgive her but don't know how. I want to find out how to forgive her, and I want to wait - with her - until then.
Forgiving her and taking her back are two separate things and the one does not necessitate the other.
That's a good point.![]()
If she straight up tells you she slept with someone else because you didn't live close enough she is absolutely not worth it. She's basically telling you she'll do it again if you aren't readily available. She got some issues that she needs to work out. Good on you for walking away.
She's"I won't be able to survive ... I would be looking for sex"
"If I tell you that I'll sleep with other guys beforehand is that still cheating [?] ... Like asking your permission?"
f ucking nope.
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*Ahem*"I won't be able to survive ... I would be looking for sex"
"If I tell you that I'll sleep with other guys beforehand is that still cheating [?] ... Like asking your permission?"
f ucking nope.