This is not a debate.
If you do not tip people who rely on it as part of their living, you are:
1)An asshole
2)Cheap
3)Looked down upon by your peers for the above two reasons
Honestly, I feel it's an excellent way to make a character call. When I see someone who is a bad tipper, I judge them on several parameters-- greed, propriety, tact, social awareness...
Go ahead. Excuse yourself whatever stupid way you want. But I and everyone else know that you're pretty much knowingly doing something bad to a stranger just because you can get away with it without legal repercussion.
When I'm with someone who tips like a jerk, I call them out. And I fix their tip. If I'm with someone who tries to not tip at all, I tell them whats up, pay the tip for them, and then tell them I'm not going to go out with them if they don't start tipping.
If you can't "afford" to tip your bartender, go to the liquor store. If you can't tip your server, go to mcdonalds. If you can't tip your delivery driver, pick it up yourself.
Stop trying to pretend to yourself that not tipping is OK.
Edit: Just to be clear I'm talking about in the United States.
If you do not tip people who rely on it as part of their living, you are:
1)An asshole
2)Cheap
3)Looked down upon by your peers for the above two reasons
Honestly, I feel it's an excellent way to make a character call. When I see someone who is a bad tipper, I judge them on several parameters-- greed, propriety, tact, social awareness...
Go ahead. Excuse yourself whatever stupid way you want. But I and everyone else know that you're pretty much knowingly doing something bad to a stranger just because you can get away with it without legal repercussion.
When I'm with someone who tips like a jerk, I call them out. And I fix their tip. If I'm with someone who tries to not tip at all, I tell them whats up, pay the tip for them, and then tell them I'm not going to go out with them if they don't start tipping.
If you can't "afford" to tip your bartender, go to the liquor store. If you can't tip your server, go to mcdonalds. If you can't tip your delivery driver, pick it up yourself.
Stop trying to pretend to yourself that not tipping is OK.
Edit: Just to be clear I'm talking about in the United States.