RevDrucifer
Well-Known Member
It just seems like a reasonably common thing for people to say things like "I tried therapy and it didn't work" or "my therapist told me that I'm actually perfectly healthy and don't need them", etc. Whenever I hear that, I can't help but wonder if someone during that interaction missed the point of therapy.
Agreed.
The flipside of this is that when I first started therapy a few years back, I had a therapist I was NOT connecting with on any level whatsoever and because of my lack of experience in getting therapy, I stuck with him longer than I should have, thinking “Well, I’m here because I don’t have the answers I’m looking for, so I shouldn’t assume I know what I’m talking about”
Turns out by hunch was correct, it just wasn’t a good match and I found a great one after, but it definitely made me curious as to how many are getting therapy from a therapist that sucks at their job.
That said, I personally used therapy as a springboard for how I was treating myself during that period of my life. It wasn’t so much “I’m looking for answers” as it was “I’m pretty sure I know the answers, I just need you to let me know if I’m getting to them the right way with what I’m doing” , which still required discussion and drilling down into those things because while the intent behind the actions may be positive, it may not be effective.