TedEH
Cromulent
They've got the right idea. When I lost weight I did it too fast, and it had repercussions. Slow and steady is good.
I wouldn't worry about eating the "idealized" picture of what you might think healthy food is - like you don't need to get picky about GMOs or what your food ate before you ate it - much broader looks at food are fine at this stage. Less jerky is the right idea. Less chips and junk is the right idea. Leaner meats, chicken, fish, etc. are good for you when combined with the rest of the things you need - the trick is to have those instead of a giant greasy bacony burger. You don't need dessert every day - that's a treat, not a meal. Even better if you prepare meals yourself so that there's no surprises. Remember that eating a salad every day is only useful if you're not also eating junk right before or after. It's not about the salad, it's about the lack of the junk. Besides, salads can be great if you do it the right way.
I wouldn't worry about eating the "idealized" picture of what you might think healthy food is - like you don't need to get picky about GMOs or what your food ate before you ate it - much broader looks at food are fine at this stage. Less jerky is the right idea. Less chips and junk is the right idea. Leaner meats, chicken, fish, etc. are good for you when combined with the rest of the things you need - the trick is to have those instead of a giant greasy bacony burger. You don't need dessert every day - that's a treat, not a meal. Even better if you prepare meals yourself so that there's no surprises. Remember that eating a salad every day is only useful if you're not also eating junk right before or after. It's not about the salad, it's about the lack of the junk. Besides, salads can be great if you do it the right way.
Honestly, I think your perspective might change once you've lost the weight you wanted and appearances might not be a big deal anymore. If anyone sees me with no shirt on it's pretty clear that I used to be heavier - you can't not see it - but it doesn't bother me. Not because I don't care what I look like - I do - but because the health aspect has become more important. Anyone who cares that much about the exact shape of your torso isn't worth your time.I won't do lipo, but I will do sonobello if it works