Exchanger
Well-Known Member
I dunno man, that's not nice to people who actually suffer from mental illnesses. It seems I'm neurotic myself (can't even deny it to be fair).I was about to make another attempt at third rate humor, but you guys need to realize that you can't argue somebody out of mental illness. It's pointless.
But more seriously, there are lots of people who have to live with mental illness and they don't deserve to be lumped with other people who just behave inappropriately.
I may also be overly naive and hope that people can change, but yeah some discussions can slip into a dead end real quick and stop being constructive (not blaming anyone there).
There's no question, it's just an observation. You often come back with vague excuses tinted with blame, or turn things around in a way that makes you look good...again, what I said about internalizing vs externalizing, there can be too much of one but too much of the other and it comes across as dishonest. It's nice to be 'positive' about everything, but you can't just endlessly skew reality to fit your point of view.How I handle failure? hmm... before going further I ask you to review what your true intention is in asking this question.
If you know in your heart that it's all true and that it's just circumstances shining a bad light upon you, then all is fine...I'm just saying this is not what transpires.