Gravy Train
SS.org Regular
This.
99.999% of my choices affect only myself at the end of the day, so not having to navigate someone else's feelings and life situations makes everything MUCH easier.
That said, I've grown pretty bored of that ease and I know a good chunk of my decision to be single is out of not wanting someone else to have the power to hurt me, I'd rather just not even give them the option by keeping them out; which isn't healthy at all.
I know what you mean. But I do think there is someone out there for everyone, even if it takes a lifetime to meet them. I'm going to take things nice and easy and see where it goes!